My youngest daughter is being picked on at school.  And while we’ve taught her to not hit back(which she’s done).  I want to tell her to stand up for herself a little more agressivly.  But the kid has been suspended from school (ok daycare) for 3 days.   He’s just a problem child.  My wife wrote a letter saying that we want to help resolve this for our daughter’s sake and their son’s sake.  We’ll see what happens…